Why Ask Why?
Spend any time around a 4 year old, and you will inevitably find yourself involved in a conversation which evolves into this:
- Please do this thing
- Why?
- Reasonable answer
- Why?
- Restatement of reasonable answer
- Why?
- Shorter, more frustrated restatement of reasonable answer
- Why?
- Because that’s what has to be done
- Why?
- Because
- Why?
- I give up. Go ask your other parent
It’s a simple, but powerful and important question. The trouble is that when it’s a 4 year old asking it, in a lot of cases they can’t understand the answer. More often, they aren’t interested in understanding it.